22 Feb 2006 07:32 PM
by Nicki Bradley | More from this Blogger
In 2003, after various problems from minor hiccups to major corruption, Vietnam shut down its international adoption program. After what has been years of anxious anticipation, Vietnam restructured their program and finally announced in June 2005 that they had signed an agreement between Vietnam and the United States reopening the international adoption program. From that point, U.S. adoption agencies who had remained in Vietnam, providing humanitarian aide throughout the moratorium were welcomed to start the licensing process to become licensed for adoption under the new program. The first licenses were issued in January 2006 with many more expected to follow in the months following. Referrals started arriving in February 2006 with travel expected in March and April for that first set of referrals.
Why Choose Vietnam?
The Vietnamese are a people who honor family and, especially, children tremendously. Orphans in Vietnam are often placed for adoption due to a family's inability to care for a child due to poverty, death of a parent or special medical needs. The Vietnamese culture also frowns on single motherhood so many infants are placed in orphanages by single mothers. Orphanages are kept extremely clean and the infant-to-nanny ratio is very low. Nannie are always seen with at least one infant in-arms and nannies are typically quiet emotinoaly when it comes time to say goodbye to their charges. Vietnamese babies have a very low incidence of attachment issues. Oftentimes birth mothers continue to visit their children in the orphanages until they are adopted and occasionally foster parents are used to care for children.
Who Can Adopt In Vietnam:
The Adoption Process:
The adoption process for Vietnam is like many international countries. It is a three part process: state-level approval, country-level approval and Vietnam approval.
The Cost of Vietnam Adoption:
International adoption is notoriously fraught with hidden fees. Vietnam is no exception. Good adoption agencies will not hide anything and will spell out all the various costs you can expect to pay on your own and what their services will cover. This can vary from agency to agency so do your homework. In general the costs will be:
Although the agency and program fees are quite low compared to some international country adoption programs, you can expect to pay around $20,000 when all is said and done.
The Referral:
Referalls, under the old program, often happened quite quickly within a matter of a few months but varied from agency to agency. Many expect this to remain the same under the new program but only time will tell. There are already some referrals of babies born in Dec '05 and Jan '06 so it seems to bode well for quick referral times in the future.
Once a referral is accepted, the time between referral and travel may only be 1-2 months but could be up to 6 months.
The Trip:
One of the big changes under the new adoption program is that Vietnam now only requires one trip for parents. The trip is a short one, about 2-3 weeks. Only one parent is required although both are encouraged. Some agencies have their own rules about one-parent travel so make sure to ask the question if you plan to travel alone.
The Adoption:
Adoptions in Vietnam are done within a day or two of arrival. They occur at what is called the Giving & Receiving Ceremony. Occasionally, the birthmother will also be present but it is usually one or several adopting parents and the Vietnamese authorities. You may be asked to say a few words about what this adoption means to you.
The rest of the trip will be spent applying for and waiting for your child's visa and passport. As soon as that arrives, you are free to go home.

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