Is It the Infant Attachment or the Choice in Mates?
In a couple of my last articles I began describing some of the attachments that are formed as infants. I also discussed how these attachments carry over into our adult relationships. While I was reading through the various signs and characteristics of each type of attachment, I began thinking that perhaps not all of these characteristics are caused from the infant formed attachment. Perhaps some of them come from the choice in mates. For example, I can see how a person who formed a secure attachment as an infant may form an anxious attachment as a romantic partner if a … Continue reading