Limit Setting Steps To Get Started.

Parenting any child requires setting limits for children. When parents adopt a child especially a toddler or older child it is easy to overlook some behavior issues early in the transition, placement, and honeymoon phases. Some behaviors may catch us off guard or we may hope go away with adjustment time and attachment. We want to be a “nice” mom and dad, and try hard to avoid reprimands and too much correction during these early stages. It would be nice if we were all able to live by the advice to start with clear and concise limit setting, the fact … Continue reading

How Many Reminders?

I find reminders and reminding to be one of those grey areas of parenting–do we remind our children until they do what we need them to? Do we put a limit on how many times we are going to remind them? Is there a grace period? Do we mix it up and use notes, signs, and verbal reminders? What is the right way to go about managing and issuing those annoying reminders? The best advice I ever heard was from an experienced mom who suggested getting to a detached place where I could remind my kids without getting emotional or … Continue reading