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"Last Chance Ranch"

by Pam Connell

27 Jan 2008 03:31 PM

There are many residential treatment programs for troubled children and teens, ranging from inpatient psychiatric units to wilderness adventures to boot camps. But to my knowledge, there is only one which is specifically focused on international adoptees.

When Adoptions Don't Work Out

by Pam Connell

27 Jan 2008 06:33 AM

No one wants to talk about it-not adoptive parents who know how wonderful adoption can be, not prospective parents who desperately want to believe that love will conquer all, not professionals whose reputations and self-image are based on facilitating the happily-ever-after family.

He Still Wonders

by Fatherofeight

07 Mar 2007 08:00 AM

Sometimes I wonder what my adopted children are thinking. Every now and then, they will tell me something that is surprising. Every time that I start to think that a child is finally secure, I get a surprise. At least, that is how it has worked so far.

Memories That Linger

by Fatherofeight

02 Mar 2007 09:54 PM

One of our adopted children has just recently been exhibiting behavior that we do not usually expect with him. He has been having outbursts of anger at school and at home. We thought about what might be triggering these feelings and sought counsel from an experienced adoption therapist.

Foster Parents Will Have Emergencies

by Fatherofeight

25 Feb 2007 06:08 PM

Yesterday, I was in the car at a crowded intersection and an emergency vehicle had to go through in a very big hurry. I was glad that they were not coming for me. It made me think about the times that I have been in an emergency situation.

Just Like Dad

by Fatherofeight

20 Feb 2007 12:50 AM

Matthew Walter, our oldest adopted child, is the only one who remembers anything about his life before he was part of our family. He is very inquisitive about my family, particularly my father. The other boys rarely, if ever, show such an interest.

Basic Nurture: Catching Up

by Fatherofeight

16 Feb 2007 04:18 PM

When a child has not received basic nurturing as an infant, there is a deep need to receive what he missed, even if it comes several years later. I want to preface what I am about to write by saying that I am not a medical or psychological expert.

Adoptive Parenting Traits, Part 5

by Fatherofeight

18 Jan 2007 08:58 PM

This blog is number five in my series discussing the ideal traits that an adoptive parent will have to successfully adopt a special needs child. The individual will have compassion and sensitivity for the inconsistent emotions and sentiments of their adopted child.

Adoptive Parenting Traits, Part 3

by Fatherofeight

16 Jan 2007 11:45 PM

This is the third blog in a series that discusses the traits that an adoptive parent of a special needs child must have. The parent must be mindful that recovery and restoration from the child's past may not be immediate and that some damage may never be fixed.

An Adoptive Mother's Letter to Her Daughter: Part 3-Rumors and Crutches

by Anna Glendenning

10 Jan 2007 04:06 PM

Continued from Part 2: Scar Tissue Mommy and daddy have been trying so hard to help our Makala learn how to take care of the scars no one can see. The scars in your heart and shown by the tears you cry, and the way you act and show your feelings.



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